This is a subject that truly bothers me, and I feel I need to talk to my readers about this. This is an epidemic, and I’ve recently learned our children will have shorter life spans than us because of this. Too often I see overweight children, and my heart just breaks for them. I’ve often thought of specializing in this particular population, but my concern is knowing it’s the entire family that would need the help, not just the child. I can work the children until they pass out, but that will do no good if they return back into a home and are fed a fast food burger, fries and shake. It’s not going to do one bit of good if the child goes back home only to plop down in front of a video game all the time. One hour of play a day is recommended, yet most children, much less adults don’t even get that in a week. We must get this under control immediately, and it all starts in your own home.
From the Mayo Clinic ¹:
Obese children can develop serious health problems, such as diabetes and heart disease, often carrying these conditions into an obese adulthood. Overweight children are at higher risk of developing:
- Type 2 diabetes
- Metabolic syndrome
- High blood pressure
- Asthma and other respiratory problems
- Sleep disorders
- Liver disease
- Early puberty or menarche
- Eating disorders
- Skin infections
The social and emotional fallout also can hurt your child. Being overweight can cause:
- Low self-esteem and bullying. Children often tease or bully their overweight peers, who suffer a loss of self-esteem and an increased risk of depression as a result.
- Behavior and learning problems. Overweight children tend to have more anxiety and poorer social skills than normal-weight children have. At one extreme, these problems may lead to acting out and disrupting the classroom. At the other, they may cause social withdrawal. Stress and anxiety also interfere with learning. School-related anxiety can create a vicious cycle in which ever-growing worry fuels ever-declining academic performance.
Depression. Social isolation and low self-esteem create overwhelming feelings of hopelessness in some overweight children. When children lose hope that their lives will improve, they’re well on the way to depression. A depressed child may lose interest in normal activities, sleep more than usual or cry a lot. Some depressed children hide their sadness and appear emotionally flat instead. Either way, depression is as serious in children as in adults. If you think your child is depressed, talk with him or her and share your concerns with his or her doctor.
What an incredibly bad legacy to leave our children! I know we are busy people, but there are always ways to find time for ourselves. I have struggled most of my life with weight. I can look at chocolate and balloon up 5 pounds. I have to exercise to maintain, and I have to be vigilant about my nutrition. I like to eat good food, and I’m not a so-called health food nut, so I had to find a balance that works for me.
You must do the same. Just because you like to eat cookie dough on occasion, does that mean you should keep it stocked in the house just in case you get the craving? NO! Do this same thing with your children’s snacks. In fact, make their snacks healthier. Experiment to find the things they
like. My son has the opposite problem with weight – he has a hard time gaining. The doctors have told me to let him have milkshakes and to eat what and when he wants due to his medication that reduces his appetite. Instead of loading him up on junk, we keep whole milk for him, skim for me; protein powder we both use; bananas, strawberries and peanut butter; and chocolate syrup to make healthier, more satisfying shakes. I buy him snacks I actually don’t like, so I won’t eat it. I buy separate pudding mixes: sugar free for me, regular for him. All this is to show you that with only 2 people in the house, I make the effort to adjust food for our separate needs. If he wants cookies, I make him hide them in his room, and he won’t touch my favorite veggies.
As for exercise, he now makes sure he plays every day, he does his chores, and he still has time to do homework. I once read somewhere a person who felt guilty for using “child labor”. Child labor is making them work in a sawmill 16 hours a day for a dollar when they are 10. Chores are responsibility, teaches necessary life skills, and will make your child learn to do for themselves. It also get them up and moving, and as anyone who’s ever mopped hardwood floors or vacuumed the stairs can tell you, you will sweat. Get your children involved in every aspect of life, and soon they will begin to make the right choices for themselves.
Use play to get you and your family active. Here are some ideas to sneak in some fitness under the guise of fun:
- Play your Wii. Get one of the sports games and have a bowling night, or a fencing competition.
- Twister is good for flexibility and core training. When’s the last time you had to weave your leg through arms, bodies and legs to get to the red dot and hold it until your next turn?
- Go on a scavenger hunt. Make a list, and take a hike through the woods to find the items. Make it a race, and have everyone span the neighborhood as fast as they can.
The key to all this is you, the parent. You have to be active yourself or they will just continue to do as you do, not as you say. Big deal if your daughter doesn’t want to sweat. Better she sweat now than develop diabetes. Big deal if she doesn’t want to look like a guy and pick up a weight. Better do that now than develop osteoporosis down the road. Big dang deal your boy is a Modern Warfare genius. It does him no good when he can’t even walk up the stars without a break. Do you and your children a favor. Get the family active, get them moving, and you will all be around longer, enjoying a happier, healthier life.
The Medicine Plus, a service of the National Institutes of Health, has some wonderful information on children’s obesity. I have downloaded a copy of a flyer for you from them available here. I love to work with children, so please contact me if you’d like help in creating a family plan to become healthy and active.
¹ Childhood obesity; By Mayo Clinic staff; http://www.mayoclinic.com/print/childhood-obesity/DS00698/METHOD=print&DSECTION=all#